My Dad Is Going To Kill My Dog One Day

My Dad Is Going To Kill My Dog One Day

My Dad Is Going To Kill My Dog One Day

Many people have been asking this question “how do I get my dad to stop hitting my dog?” Firstly, you have to ask yourself this question, is my dog bad? Many people find it very hard to train their dogs. Some dogs are very dangerous and hard to tame despite making them go through a lot of training sessions.

Beating, hitting, and spanking a dog are mostly used as a form of dog discipline or punishment. Dogs mostly learn through conditioning. They do repeat behaviors that get them good results and stop the ones that get them bad results.


Is it good or bad to hit a dog?

Beating, hitting and spanking a dog are all bad techniques. Some sensitive parts of the bodies of dog-like ears or muzzles deliver pain when they perform bad behavior.

However, the issue with aversive training is risky, too personal or there is even no good way to redirect the punishment. Dogs know that pain is not a natural result of actions. As a consequence, dogs might end up learning the wrong lessons such as slapping, biting, and hitting as a fun game.

Normally; A person’s face or hand coming towards you is a bad thing. You should run away from such people. A person coming toward me means pain. I should keep them away by biting or growling or simply staying away from people.

If we don’t deliver the pain at the right time with the proper force and at exactly the good timing or circumstance, our dog might get confused as to why he is being punished. He might become stressed, confused, and fearful because he isn’t sure how he can stop such pain from recurring.

As a result, beating, hitting, and spanking might lead to more behavioral issues such as fear of aggression as well as submissive urination. For such reasons, using physical methods to abuse a dog isn’t a very good technique. They are many ways we can get our dogs to behave and not engage in destructive behaviors. The answer lies in the school of dog discipline, namely reward-based techniques.

Just contrary to what some people may say, reward-based techniques aren’t just about giving food to our dogs. Rather, it allows us to have access to pack leadership and control through the proper control of resources. We might not realize but we already know/ have an idea of controlling our dog’s resources. For instance, we decide when he gets to go out for a walk, when he gets to eat or play, what sort of things he gets to play with, what he can chew on, and many more.

For example, each time my dog bites my hand while feeding him, I show a sign that this behavior is unacceptable to me by using a no-mark sign. At times, I do ignore him and don’t get his food until he is calm and well behaved, he learns from that.

If he continues with such behavior, I say time-out and take him to a time-out zone which teaches him that if he can’t behave well around people, he doesn’t get to be with people. There is a popular quote that can be helpful to you.

” We respond to all other bad behaviors similarly – by restricting our dog’s access to his most desired resources, and only giving him rewards when he has earned them through good and well-respected behavior”.

Different dog issue with behavior involves many different tactics, but the outstanding strategy is one of resource control and proper management.

However, most dogs will sometimes hit and bite each other to correct behavior. They also hit and bite during play. Usually, they can be to do this only because they have very good control of the placement. 

Dogs aren’t human and we aren’t dogs in such a way that we do not have the same physical control or strengths as our dog. We don’t possess sharp claws, teeth or neither can we run very fast. This is a reason why it isn’t a good idea to physically challenge loose or stray dogs.

 Many risks and difficulties can make our dog’s behavior degrade over time as our dog gets use to the pain. Using it to stop one problem or the other may inadvertently cause more dog behavior to crop up. 

Logic also dictates that we should not hit, wrestle, or engage with unknown dogs that might be very aggressive. Likewise, we shouldn’t beat, spank or hit our very own dog either. Moreover, it would be wise to play to our human strength rather than do a bad job at pretending to be a bad dog.

As a human, we can reason, develop and build long–term plans. Our human abilities give us power or control of overall the things that our dog desires or needs. As simple as it is, it makes us natural leaders, because by taking care of the pack’s resources, we control the pack.

We can also play a very good role when we let our dog go through a training session that would help in improving their behavior. Training like fetch, tug, run, and many more can help in improving the smartness and intelligence of human nature.

If you observe some situations where you have a trained dog trying to correct a bad dog it results in a dog fight. It shows the trained dog is already aware of the does-and-don’t rules he has gone through during his training session. In the process, he wants that fellow dog to stick to those rules and stop messing around.

At times, well-trained dogs might be aggressive. This doesn’t mean he is a bad dog, he might probably be trained to be protective of their owners or defend their selves from bad people. 

Despite the information, many people still find it very hard to be that training a dog can help improve their behavior. Instead, they believe beating, spanking, hitting, or physically abusing dogs is the best way to correct them which is a very bad and dangerous thing to do.

Does hitting or spanking a dog work?

Based on pain techniques, it may stop problem behaviors in just a short term duration. But it isn’t the most effective way to discipline a dog.

 There are a lot of difficulties and risks that can make our dog’s behavior to degrade rather than improve.  Effects of beating and hitting dogs make them get habituated to the pain. In contrast, reward based methods are safer because there is little to no danger of our dog becoming fearful, stressed or being aggressive.

It doesn’t deliver any pain to them instead withholds the rewards he has failed to earn. Disciplining a dog aversively, on the other hand, makes a dog to avoid us because there might be pain involved. Resource based training allows us to form a stronger relationship with our dog and make them a responsible canine who works for what he wants and not what he doesn’t.

Mahatma Gandhi once said – “The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are being treated”.

“Anger abuse” is usually done to dogs as a cathartic act that makes the angry person feel relief from his or her rage. You might not be surprised to know that the majority of purveyors of domestic violence also abuse pets.


There is an axiom that says that “hurt people, hurt people”. If we apply this term to dogs, animal abuse is normally committed by individuals most especially those who have been physically or mentally abused.

Most dog abuse done intentionally occurs by men under the age of 30 years. Is there any surprise that dogs are more afraid of men? Some abuse in the case of hoarding is by women over 60 years of age.

A psychology study found that 85% of homes that were under investigation for child abuse also had instances of animal abuse.


What kind of dog abuse commonly occurs?

 As hard as it might be for you to believe, dogfighting is still practiced. The kind of terrible things done to dogs by those who practice dogfighting are horrifying. It is hard to believe that many dogs being rescued from dogfighting rings can be placed in peaceful homes to live in harmony with people. Big kudos to the people that perform these kinds of rescues.


    • Many people in the world deal with anger issues. Anger abuse is done to dogs as the cathartic act makes the victim feel momentary relief from his or her rage. A common expression that is relating to this kind of behavior is “beating a dog”.


    • Hoarding is also a common type of canine abuse. These individuals keep adding dogs until they find themselves with dozens of dogs living in a detestable environment. These people frequently don’t have the idea they’ve crossed a threshold and need help themselves. I worked with a colleague of mine recently who had 27 dogs and didn’t realize he was a hoarder; he was not even running a rescue. Needless to say, the care he was giving these dogs was substandard. I’m currently working on how to get these dogs and him some help.


    • Puppy mills not only provide unhealthy environments for the dam, sire, and puppies but are highly irresponsible in their breeding practices.


    • I’m sad to report that a lot of abuse is done at times by “dog trainers” who use shock collars and other forms of physical abuse in the name of training.


    How can you tell if a dog is abused?


    • A matted or physically injured dog is a telltale sign.


    • The dog is poorly fed and is below optimum weight.


    • The dog is chained or tired in an area where there is nothing but feces and mud.


    • No provision of shelter for the dog.


    • The dog’s collar has become embedded in its neck.


    • There are too many dogs on one property – this is evidence of hoarding.


    • An owner who physically abuses or hurts a dog is an obvious example of abuse.

    What should you do if you witness dog abuse?


    If by any chance you witness dog abuse, it needs to be reported. Almost all municipalities have an animal service department that can be notified. You can also call 911 to report violent abuse if this kind of abuse is accompanied by violence to family members. Most importantly, do provide information – video and photo evidence which can be helpful to law enforcement and animal services.

    Not all of us can fix all the suffering that some of these canine friends have to endure, but we can step us and intervene for abused dogs. You can also contact your local Humane Society and inform them about being a witness of dog abuse providing them detailed information. Let them know you are making an anonymous request for help because you fear the repercussions of the victim finding out you are the reporter.


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